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ROBERT
MATTHEWS HYPNOTHERAPY
020
8840 9961
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| Brief comments about treatment of selected
problems and conditions |
Depression is usually
a reaction to some kind of loss or series of losses such as beravement,
seperation, break-up, a set back, failure, loss of opportunity, even
loss of hope. Sometimes such losses happen suddenly, but they are equally
likely to creep up on us slowly, such as the loss of youth and looks,
and opportunity.
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The sufferer is sometimes
unaware of the reasons for depression or even unaware of what is really
causing problems deep down. There are well known therapies, eg cognitive
behavioural therapy, that try their best to reason with the depressive's
negative feelings, thoughts and beliefs, but though they can be helpful,
they are only dealing with the tip of the iceberg (see my page on hypnotherapy).
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Sometimes depression
is a natural, instinctive period of mourning, or nursing of pain,
the 'comfort zone' of inactivity seeming preferable to the world
of action, to the effort of action. Things seem pointless, hopeless
and in deeper depression nothing seems interesting or inspiring
except for the gratification of basic animal functions such as desire
for food - even these can be affected. Imagine life as a game of
tug-of-war, where two teams try to pull the rope over a white line.
Lets say the game represents your life, a reflection of your life's
own progress of ups and downs, setbacks versus achievements. When
you are winning it feels great, but when things go the other way,
the opposition forces keep pulling the rope away from you, it may
get so bad that you just want to let go of the rope, leave the field
(ie stop playing the game of life) and take no active part for a
while. You just want to sit on the grass and recoup, maybe watch
the others or, more likely, take no interest. Some people even take
their own lives because there is so much pain or loss they dont
want to take part permenantly.
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The good news
is that through hypnotherapy, the parts of the mind that are causing
the depresion can be helped to come to terms with things and can
be persuaded to release all the old feelings of wellbeing, contentment
and enthusiasm - they are still there, deep down, blocked by what
has happened, or by disappointment, wating to be released. Take
heart, there is a way out. I have seen dramatic transformations
take place after just one session of hynotherapy on several occasions.
However quickly you respond, I urge you to give it a go. Many of
my depression clients go on to become a source of new referals.
Remember, If the mind can get you into this situation, it can get
you out.
To discuss whether
hypnotherapy could help you, or to make a booking, call now on 020
8840 9961 e-mail
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Robert Matthews 2001 All contents and layout
protected by copyright. Last updated 29.6.01
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